My daughter is 7 and my son is 9. We're telling them this weekend that their mom and I are separating. I want to make sure they understand it's not their fault and that we both love them equally. Any advice from guys who've been through this? Should I do it together with their mom or separate?
That's a tough conversation man. I remember doing this with my two and keeping it simple and age-appropriate really helped. Make sure they know it's not their fault and that you both still love them - kids need to hear that explicitly.
You've got this. With three kids I've learned that consistency and showing up for them after the talk matters more than the perfect words during it. Keep reassuring them and stay involved in their lives.
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That's a big moment ahead. The fact that you're thinking this through beforehand shows you care about doing right by them. Just be honest, let them ask questions, and remind them you're still their dad.