Using both OurFamilyWizard and Talking Parents. My ex insists on OFW for "official" stuff but she responds way faster on TP. I'm spending too much time checking both. Anyone else juggle multiple apps or am I overthinking this?
Two apps is definitely too many. That's just asking for miscommunication. What does she use TP for if she wants OFW for official stuff? Sounds like she's trying to use different channels for different things and that won't work.
I'd say if you're using both actively then yeah that's one too many. We just use OFW because the ex threatened to claim I wasn't staying updated if I didn't check it daily. Pick one and tell her that's the official channel, everything else goes there no exceptions.
The fact that she's pushing OFW specifically makes me wonder if she likes that one because it has certain features. Either way two apps is chaos. Pick one and stick to it. You're not being paranoid you're being smart.
Not paranoid at all. Document everything everywhere honestly. I use OFW for the 'official' stuff she wants but I take screenshots of texts too. Cover your ass basically.
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I'd consolidate. Keeping two separate systems means something important will slip through the cracks eventually and then you'll be the bad guy. Just tell her you're going with OFW and that's it.