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Is anyone else's ex refusing to do scheduled handoffs at the agreed location?
Ian P.Regular
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We agreed on the shopping center parking lot by Target in our custody agreement. My ex keeps wanting to do handoffs at her new apartment or at the kids' school. Like, I get it, it's inconvenient for her, but that's not what we agreed to and it messes with my schedule when I have to drive to different places. I don't want to be that guy but also... we have an agreement for a reason? Do I need to loop in my lawyer or is this something I should just keep addressing myself?
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The shopping center location is literally the whole point of having it in writing though. That's neutral ground for a reason. Have you sent her a message referencing the agreement? Document every time she tries to change it.
She's testing boundaries. First it's the apartment, next she's asking for earlier pickups or later dropoffs. Stick to the agreement. If she keeps refusing the Target lot, that's documented non-compliance when you need it.