Every transition is awkward. My 5 year old cried a little when I left which broke my heart. I know it's normal but man it doesn't get easier. Their mom and I text every few hours about them which is good but also hard because I miss them so much. 3 more days until I pick them up again.
Man, that hits different. The crying really does get to you no matter how many times it happens. Just remember she's gonna be excited to see you next time, and that's what matters. You're doing the right thing.
Oof, I feel that. Every goodbye with my oldest when transitions happen just wrecks me for like an hour. It's rough but the fact that you're feeling it means you're a good dad. Hang in there.
Those transitions are the hardest part honestly. Seeing your kid cry is brutal, but you're handling it the right way by acknowledging it without making it weird. Give yourself some grace, these handoffs are tough on everyone.
The awkwardness of transitions is real. I feel like I'm constantly trying to read whether my 5yo is genuinely upset or just picking up on my own anxiety about the handoff.
These moments are so hard. Remember though that kids are resilient and the crying usually stops pretty quick once you're out of sight. Still doesn't make leaving easier.
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That moment when they cry hits different every time, doesn't it? Even when you know intellectually that transitions are normal and they'll be fine. Your heart just aches.