Got the papers signed yesterday. I have the kids every other weekend and wed nights. Honestly thought I'd feel relief but mostly I feel guilty. Like I'm failing them even though the split was necessary. Anyone else go through this? How long until it feels normal?
Give yourself some grace, brother. The papers just got signed yesterday. Those Wednesday nights and every other weekend are still meaningful time with your kids, and honestly that's what they'll remember.
That guilt is totally normal but here's the thing - being an engaged dad on your weekends and Wednesday nights is way better for your kids than you suffering through a situation that wasn't working. You're showing up, that matters.
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Feeling lost makes total sense right now, but you've got a schedule and you're showing up. That's more than a lot of guys do. Focus on making those days count with your kids.