55/45 split with me getting them basically every other week plus Wednesdays. Took 18 months of back and forth but we finally settled. Feels weird to have it in writing now instead of just doing whatever worked. Kids seem relieved that it's decided. Starting the new schedule next month. Nervous but ready.
Congrats on getting it finalized. Those 55/45 splits actually work pretty well for homework and activities since you've got that midweek block. My oldest always does better when she knows exactly when she's with me.
18 months of fighting to get here, that's brutal man. The Wednesday plus alternating weeks setup sounds solid though - gives you real consistency with the kids. That weird feeling will fade once you settle into the rhythm.
Man, 18 months is a long time to be in limbo. Glad you got something workable. Now the hard part starts of actually making the schedule work smoothly.
This is huge. Knowing you get consistent time with them every other week plus midweek is so much better than the back and forth fighting. How are the boys adjusting to the schedule so far?
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Congrats on getting it finalized. That 18 months sounds rough. The 55/45 with Wednesday nights is solid though. Did you have to compromise a lot to get there or was it pretty straightforward?