Not even a heads up text. Just dropped him off and I'm combing nits out of his hair that night. I had to treat the whole house, his stuffed animals, everything. When I texted her about it (trying to stay calm), she said "I didn't notice." How do I bring up hygiene/health stuff without sounding accusatory? This isn't the first time something like this has happened.
Been there. Spent three nights combing through everything. Pro tip for next time: the lice treatment works but you gotta retreat in seven days. A lot of people skip that second round and it comes back.
This is the kind of thing that should 100% be communicated. Not to be petty but I'd document it too just in case custody arrangements ever get revisited.
Did you call her out about not giving you a heads up? Because that would drive me absolutely nuts. You're prepping to treat your whole house now because of her negligence.
That's infuriating. No heads up means she probably didn't even check his head before dropping him off. Would be having a serious conversation about checking kids before transitions from now on.
to join the conversation.
Lice are a pain but honestly they're just a thing that happens sometimes. The real issue is she didn't contact you. That's basic co-parenting communication.