New custody schedule starting Monday and I'm nervous

Apr 22·1 min read

Been separated for 6 months now and we finally agreed on a schedule. I get the kids Monday through Wednesday, she gets them the rest of the week. I have a smaller place so I've been setting up their room the past few weeks, got bunk beds, decorated with their favorite stuff. Just worried about the transition honestly. My youngest has been living with mom mostly and I don't want him to feel like he's being passed around. Any tips for making this easier on them?

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Comments(4)

RRyanRegularApr 24

Nervous is normal but you got this. Make sure the kids know the routine and that they can call you anytime. Consistency is what they need right now.

MMitchell R.RegularApr 24

I remember being exactly where you are. The anxiety before starting the new schedule was worse than the actual schedule itself. You're going to be fine.

DDerekNew DadApr 22

Six months is a long adjustment period. Now that you have the schedule locked in, things should actually feel more stable for everyone. Hang in there man.

MMarcusNew DadApr 23

That's a good schedule to start with. Monday through Wednesday gives you solid quality time. First few weeks might feel awkward but you'll all find your rhythm fast.