New schedule worked out and it's actually going well

Mar 10·1 min read

Me and my ex finally agreed to a schedule that actually works instead of fighting about it constantly. Turns out when we stopped trying to "win" the negotiations and just focused on what's best for the kids, we actually agreed on a lot. Still not friends but the vibes are way better. We use a coparenting app for communication which helps. If you're struggling, maybe suggest a mediator instead of lawyers going back and forth forever.

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JJamesRegular3w ago

This is huge. Getting to a place where you and your ex can actually work together instead of fight makes everything better for the kids. How long did it take to get there?

DDannyRegular3w ago

Finally getting that stability must be such a relief. The kids probably feel it too when the adults stop fighting about logistics.

JJayRegularMar 10

That's the dream right there. Consistent schedule makes everything easier for everyone involved. Sounds like both of you finally put the kids first instead of the egos.

SSteve K.RegularMar 10

That's amazing. Most co-parenting situations I see are just people tolerating each other, not actually collaborating. You've got something special if you found a schedule that works for everyone.

TTony M.New Dad3w ago

Man, when that finally clicks it's like a weight lifts off. We fought about our schedule for almost a year before we found something that worked. How long did it take you guys to get there?

KKevin M.Regular3w ago

This is huge. The kids feel it when the adults stop fighting about logistics. Glad you found something stable. What was the big thing that made it finally work?