Product rec: Google Shared Calendar changed our life
Posting this because someone recommended it in another thread and I was skeptical. We set up a shared Google Calendar and literally just input appointments, pickups, school events, birthdays, etc. No communication needed except "I'm inputting Jake's soccer schedule on the family calendar." Sounds dumb but removing the back-and-forth scheduling texts has actually reduced tension. We both see what's happening. Both can add events. No he-said-she-said. Highly recommend if you're not already doing this.
This is huge. We were doing the same thing but through texts and emails and it was chaotic. Google Calendar just centralized everything - kid's practices, my work trips, partner's schedule. One source of truth.
I was skeptical too until my wife showed me the mobile notifications. Never missed a pickup time since we switched.