Schedule swap nightmare - she keeps changing pickup times last minute
So my ex keeps texting me like 30 mins before my custody swap on Fridays saying she needs to swap days or wants to pick up my 7yo early. It's messing with my work schedule and honestly my sanity. I've tried being flexible but now she's treating it like I'm just always available? How do you guys handle this without looking like the bad guy to your kids? We use OurFamilyWizard but she barely logs in properly.
30 mins is insane. That's not co-parenting, that's last-minute scrambling at your expense. Have you told her in writing that this needs to stop?