She's not sticking to the parenting plan

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2w ago1 min read

Our agreement says I get the kids Wed-Fri every week. Last month she had to keep them 2 extra days without asking, then 'forgot' to tell me about a doctor appointment they had. I'm trying not to be petty but this is getting frustrating. We use a co-parenting app now but she barely responds. Do I bring this up or let it go?

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SScott M.Regular2w ago

This would drive me crazy. The kids need consistency and so do you. You might need to have a more serious conversation about what the actual agreement means.

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SScottRegular2w ago

That's rough. You gotta put this in writing if you haven't already. Get everything documented. If she's going to keep changing the schedule, you need to be able to show it in case you ever need it for custody stuff.

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SScottRegular2w ago

Two extra days is significant. I get that things come up but she can't just move the goalposts whenever she wants. Have you talked to her directly about sticking to the plan? Maybe there's something going on on her end.

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