She wants to move states with the kids

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3d ago1 min read

Got a message from my ex saying she got a job offer in Denver and wants to relocate with the boys. Currently we have 50/50 custody and I see them every other week plus Wednesdays. This would basically end that. I don't want to be the bad guy but I'm not just giving away my relationship with my kids. What are my options here? Do I need a lawyer before I even respond? This came out of nowhere.

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TTobias K.Regular3d ago

Man, that's a tough spot. You need to talk to a family law attorney ASAP if you haven't already. Don't just respond to her casually on this one.

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BBrandonNew Dad2d ago

This is heavy stuff. Are you trying to keep them in your state or open to negotiating something? There might be options like shared custody arrangements depending on the distance.

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BBradRegular3d ago

Sorry you're dealing with this. Have you thought about what outcome you're hoping for? That might help clarify what your next move should be.

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