Son came back asking why mom's boyfriend is at the house
Not mad about the guy, seems fine, but my 9yo was confused why this dude was there and my ex didn't tell me beforehand he'd be around my kids. We're civil and all but this feels like something she should mention to me? Or am I overstepping? Don't want to be that guy but also want to know who's around my kids
The confusion is normal but yeah you should probably touch base with your ex about how to handle questions like this. Kids handle it way better when both parents have the same casual vibe about it.