Son doesn't want to come to my house anymore
He's 13 and says he'd rather stay at moms place. Says it's because his friends are closer to her house and he doesn't want to switch schools for part of the week. I feel like I'm losing him. He used to be excited about his days with me. Is this normal or am I doing something wrong? How do I fix this without seeming desperate?
Oof this one hits different at 13. Friends are everything at that age and proximity to them matters more than we'd like. I wouldn't take it personally. Instead of defending your place, ask what would make his time at your house better. Movie nights? More freedom? Let him help plan stuff. Make your place the fun option.