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Successfully navigated Thanksgiving with both families - here's what worked
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Vic G.Regular
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Posted this because I was dreading it SO HARD. Last year was a disaster with my ex showing up mad at my parents' place. This year I actually communicated a plan in ADVANCE (wild, I know).
Here's what I did:
- Split the day cleanly: 9am-1pm with my kids at my place, then they went to their mom's family from 2pm on
- Told my ex the plan via email a month early so she couldn't ambush me
- No new partners at my house (she wasn't bringing hers either, had that convo separately)
- Got the kids to help cook actual food instead of just showing up
Kids were happy, no drama, my dad didn't give me side-eye all day. Honestly feels like a win.
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