Took my 10yo to a therapist - best decision I made

Nov 231 min read

Just wanted to share: my son was having a really hard time with the split (happened 18 months ago) and I noticed he was keeping track of everything I said about his mom - like he was worried he had to pick a side. Started him with a kid therapist who specializes in co-parenting stuff and wow, it's helped SO much. He has someone neutral to talk to that isn't either parent. Not saying everyone needs this but if your kid seems stressed about the situation, might be worth exploring. Our mediator actually recommended someone and she's been great.

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TTravis N.Regular1d ago

how much are you paying per session? asking because we've been quoted like $200/session here and my ex won't split it. also did you have to get her permission or did you just... do it? worried about the custody agreement stuff

LLarry K.Regular1d ago

This is the way. We did the same thing after our split and it was a game-changer. One thing that helped us was when the therapist actually recommended we both read this book together (not at the same time lol) called 'The Good Divorce' - made me realize how much my frustration was probably leaking into conversations with my kids. Glad you caught it early.

DDale J.Regular1d ago

Did the therapist help him understand that he doesn't have to be Switzerland between you two, or was it more just having a safe space to vent? My 8yo does the same thing - instantly goes quiet if I mention her mom's schedule - and I'm wondering if it's worth the cost.

OOscar D.New Dad1d ago

nailed it