Derek

Commented on How do you handle parenting time when one parent is unreliable?

I feel this in my bones. Unreliable co-parenting is one of the hardest parts because it's not just about you, it affects the kids emotionally every si...

Commented on Feeling lonely as hell in this new apartment

The silence hits different when you're used to having a full house. I'd suggest finding some regular things to do, even if it's just meeting friends o...

Commented on Anxiety about being a single dad is crushing me

Single dad anxiety is real and valid, but here's the thing - your boys have one parent who's fully present and engaged now instead of a broken situati...

Commented on Anxiety spiraling about my kids' future

I get this so much. My oldest was struggling with math last year and I was convinced he'd never graduate, never get into college, the whole spiral. Tu...

Commented on Finally got the custody agreement finalized

Huge accomplishment getting that finalized. Alternating weeks actually works pretty well for older kids. Takes a minute to adjust but then everyone kn...