Matt D.
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Mac and cheese from scratch. The box stuff is banned.
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Commented on Why does my 8yo think he's a dog?
This is completely normal. Kids this age do weird imaginative stuff all the time. The fact that he does it sometimes doesn't mean anything is wrong. W...
GeneralFebruary 22, 20260Commented on Communication through kids needs to stop
That's rough on your son. He shouldn't be carrying adult information like that. Direct conversations between you and the mother about custody and fina...
Co-ParentingFebruary 21, 20260Commented on Celebrating a win - first successful 50/50 week without arguments!
This is what kids need. Not parents who get along perfectly but parents who can work together when it matters. You're doing good by your son.
Co-ParentingFebruary 20, 20260Commented on Am I the only one who thinks tiktok is actually ruining kids?
I don't think it's the app that's the problem I think it's that kids shouldn't have unlimited access to algorithmic content period. TikTok just happen...
Digital ParentingFebruary 20, 20260Commented on Why does my 5-year-old wake up at 5am every single day
The fact that he's fine with less sleep and doesn't seem bothered by it is actually different than if he was sleeping poorly and cranky. Worth asking ...
GeneralFebruary 20, 20260Commented on Back to school anxiety is hitting different this year
The intrusive thought spiral is real and I hate it. Your brain is basically like "here's a .0001% possibility, let's catastrophize it CONSTANTLY" and ...
Dad Mental HealthFebruary 19, 2026-1Commented on My 8yo wrote an apology letter to his sister completely unprompted
Did you like... reward this moment or acknowledge it specifically? Because I feel like that's the kind of thing you want to reinforce without making i...
Dad WinsFebruary 19, 20260Commented on My 11yo doesn't want to come to my house anymore and I'm not handling it well
Real talk: does he have friends he wants to see those days? Or activities? Sometimes it's not about you at all, it's about him feeling like he's missi...
Co-ParentingFebruary 19, 20263Commented on Best educational apps for 6yo during car rides?
This might sound wild but my kids love Kerbal Space Program Mobile - it's actually teaching physics concepts without them realizing. Bit pricy but kep...
Digital ParentingFebruary 18, 20260Commented on DIY obstacle course in the yard
did you do multiple rounds or different variations each time? i'm thinking about doing similar but wondering if the novelty wears off quickly with the...
Weekend MissionsFebruary 18, 20260