Benny R.

Commented on How to tell the kids about the divorce

Good on you and your wife for getting on the same page first before talking to them. That makes a huge difference for the kids. Keep it simple and age...

Commented on Ex wants to switch weekends last minute AGAIN

Third time this month is rough, man. I'd sit down with her and set a boundary - maybe say last minute switches only happen in genuine emergencies. You...

Commented on Got offered a promotion that would require travel

Man, that's a tough call. I've seen guys take those promotions and honestly the money doesn't replace being around for bedtime stories, you know? At 7...

Commented on Man cave finally complete after 18 months

Nice work finishing that! I know how satisfying it is to have your own space. Just make sure you're still getting those Saturdays with the kids too.

Commented on Setting a better example with my language

That's tough but at least you caught it early. I've found it helps to have something else to say in those frustrated moments, like a go-to phrase that...

Commented on Quit Drinking - 18 Months Sober

Man, that took guts to actually listen when it mattered most. Your wife sounds like she knows how to cut through the noise. 18 months is huge, congrat...

Dad of the year right here

The chaos is real

The five second rule hits too close to home

45 minutes is actually optimistic