Mike T.

Commented on Life after leaving the military was harder than I expected

That's a real transition right there. Going from military structure to figuring out who you are as a dad is heavy, but sounds like you found something...

Commented on Ex keeps changing pickup times last minute

That's frustrating as heck. I'd suggest documenting these last-minute requests so you have a record if it ever becomes an issue. Sets a boundary witho...

Commented on Paternity leave coming up - what should I expect?

The hardest part is managing the older one's feelings about the new baby. Try to carve out some one-on-one time with them, even if it's just a quick w...

Commented on Struggling to lead spiritually when I don't feel like I have it together

Dude, I vacuum daily just to feel in control and I still feel like I'm winging it. Leading by example includes showing your kids that you're not perfe...

Commented on Taking paternity leave and honestly nervous about staying home

That nervousness is totally normal, man. I was the same way before my first leave. Honestly the anxiety went away pretty quick once you settle into it...

Commented on We haven't slept in 36 hours

Okay so this is the classic fourth day thing where they just want to be held. You're in the thick of it right now but it does get better. Try contact ...

Commented on Grill season is here and I'm not ready

Oof, nothing worse than that Saturday morning scramble. At least you got it handled before the family showed up. Next year maybe do a pre-holiday main...

Commented on Finally finished my garage workshop setup - took way longer than planned

Eight months and you actually finished it? That's legendary. Woodworking setup like that is the dream, can't imagine what your wife is really thinking...

Commented on Finally setting up my fishing tackle

Dude organizing the garage is half the battle. Once those wall organizers go up you'll actually be able to find your stuff and maybe get out fishing m...

Commented on Twin boys both made the soccer team

That's the dream right there - same schedule, same team, less chaos for dad. Your organizational life just got a whole lot easier.