Mike T.

Commented on Paternity leave question - what did you actually use yours for?

Congrats on the leave! I'd suggest taking at least the first couple weeks right away to help your wife recover and get into a routine. After that, sta...

Commented on My faith got tested hard this week

Man, that panic is totally normal. I've been there and the fact that you prayed first says a lot about where your heart is. Keep leaning on that faith...

Commented on Started morning prayers with my 7yr old and it's changing everything

That's beautiful man. I started doing something similar with my oldest and it's crazy how those quiet moments before the chaos starts really set the t...

Commented on My son made me breakfast in bed without being asked

Dude, that's the dream right there. My son's five months old and I'm still just trying to keep him alive, but man, someday getting breakfast in bed li...

Commented on Took the Kids Hiking

Man, the leg complaints are real at that age. My 5 year old does the same thing around mile 2. Pro tip: snacks and constant encouragement help way mor...

Commented on Anyone else get anxious about their kids' future?

The soccer schedules and homework never stop, so the anxiety is pretty normal. Try to focus on what you can control right now instead of spiraling abo...

Commented on Life after leaving the military was harder than I expected

That's a real transition right there. Going from military structure to figuring out who you are as a dad is heavy, but sounds like you found something...

Commented on Ex keeps changing pickup times last minute

That's frustrating as heck. I'd suggest documenting these last-minute requests so you have a record if it ever becomes an issue. Sets a boundary witho...

Commented on Paternity leave coming up - what should I expect?

The hardest part is managing the older one's feelings about the new baby. Try to carve out some one-on-one time with them, even if it's just a quick w...

Commented on Struggling to lead spiritually when I don't feel like I have it together

Dude, I vacuum daily just to feel in control and I still feel like I'm winging it. Leading by example includes showing your kids that you're not perfe...