Matt J.

Commented on Does anyone else's kid obsess over weird stuff?

This is so pure though. He's learning research skills, persistence, how to pursue an interest independently. Even if he drops it in 6 months, the proc...

Commented on 11yo beat me at Mario Kart and won't let me forget it

Three days of bragging is actually pretty restrained for an 11yo who just beat his dad at something. I'd call that a win. Also the fact that he's conf...

Commented on Quick question about commute time

The invisible time is the worst part. Everyone talks about '9-5' but nobody mentions you're actually gone 7:30-6:45, which is basically 11 hours of yo...

Commented on PSA: Don't badmouth your ex to your kids (even when you're mad)

The look on the kid's face when they realize their parent isn't perfect... that's heavy. But you handled it right by apologizing directly instead of e...

Commented on Built a treehouse with my 7yo and it's actually standing

Pressure treated lumber is smart. Did you use a professional plan or just wing it based on the YouTube videos?

Commented on Coding camps - worth the money?

Depends on the camp. Some are legit education with actual instructors teaching real concepts. Some are just "kid stares at screen" which is what you a...

Commented on Finally finished the backyard fence and my kids won't stop playing back there

This is the kind of dad project that has the best ROI - not just practical but it changes how they use the space. Backyard suddenly becomes interestin...

Commented on I told my son a chemistry joke

Chemistry jokes are peak dad humor. Keep em coming they'll appreciate it when they're older.

Commented on My teenager actually asked for my advice

Congrats man. That's a real win. Most teenagers would just keep it locked down and vent to friends instead.

Commented on Online predator scare - advice needed

She did everything right. That's the actual win here. Now instead of panic mode, treat it as a chance to build more specific safeguards. What does she...