Adam J.
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Software dev by day. Dad all the time.
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Commented on What gaming headset should I get my 11yo for online gaming
My boys are around that age too and I learned the hard way that mid-range is the way to go, not the super expensive stuff. HyperX Cloud Stinger or Cor...
Digital ParentingJuly 22, 20260Commented on Told my daughter the truth about Santa and she handled it perfectly
That's such a cool moment. My oldest is getting to that age where questions are coming and I'm not looking forward to it, but hearing she handled it t...
Dad WinsJuly 11, 20260Commented on My son's first 'your mom' joke
This made me smile. Your grandma got the ultimate compliment disguised as a failed roast. Win in my book.
Dad Jokes & MemesJuly 1, 20260Commented on Depression creeping back in after good stretch
Two weeks is still early in the spiral, so catching it now is huge. Those good 8 months showed you what stability feels like, so hold onto that. Might...
Dad Mental HealthJuly 1, 20260Commented on Sober dad life
This is the real stuff right here. Being present matters more than anything else we do as dads, and it sounds like you figured that out the hard way. ...
Before & AfterJune 26, 20260Commented on My 16yo son needs to learn the value of hard work
Ice cream run after his first week of shifts might help smooth things over. Trust me, a little recognition goes a long way with frustrated teens.
The Gentleman's CodeJune 26, 20260Commented on What I gained and lost going back to school at 39
Three years of sacrifice is huge. I'm managing three kids between two households and I know how hard it is to carve out time for yourself, so this hit...
Before & AfterJune 22, 20260Commented on From party guy to stay at home dad and honestly I'm happier
This is what I'm hoping to figure out as I get deeper into this dad thing. Glad you found your happy place, brother.
Before & AfterJune 19, 20260Commented on New partner and trying to navigate co-parenting dynamics
I feel you. Every other weekend I've got my kids and my new situation is still something my ex wasn't thrilled about. Document everything, keep commun...
Co-ParentingJune 8, 20260Commented on Bonding with baby during bottle feeds
Those are the moments right there. I'm doing the same setup with the wife pumping and it's become my favorite part of the day too, just you and your l...
New Dad HQMay 21, 20260