Adam J.

Commented on New partner and trying to navigate co-parenting dynamics

I feel you. Every other weekend I've got my kids and my new situation is still something my ex wasn't thrilled about. Document everything, keep commun...

Commented on Bonding with baby during bottle feeds

Those are the moments right there. I'm doing the same setup with the wife pumping and it's become my favorite part of the day too, just you and your l...

Commented on Custody schedule question

Document everything man. I learned the hard way that custody agreements need to be specific about changes. It's not personal, it's protecting your tim...

Commented on Rant: Tired of being the only dad at church events

Man, I feel this. My fridge is basically a gallery of my kids' art at this point, and I want them seeing dads invested in their faith community too. Y...

Commented on Is 2 hours of screen time on weekends reasonable?

Two hours on weekends seems reasonable to me if it's quality stuff and not just mindless scrolling. My 6 year old gets screen time but we try to mix i...

Commented on Grill won't heat up evenly anymore

You can definitely replace just the burner, usually run about 50-80 bucks depending on your model. I'd grab a new one rather than mess with repairs, e...

Commented on Man Cave Finally Getting Completed

Dude, the neon signs are such a nice touch. With three kids I can only dream of a finished project like this, but I'm genuinely stoked for you. That's...

Commented on Remote work with a sick kid at home is impossible

This is when you realize remote work and sick kids are oil and water. I've found it's way better to just be present instead of trying to juggle both, ...

Commented on Kid said I was the best dad ever and I'm still riding that high

The simple stuff really does hit different. Throwing a ball around and just being present, that's the recipe right there. Those are the memories they'...

Commented on Taking paternity leave next month and nervous about falling behind

You've built a solid team if you've been there 6 years. Trust them to step up while you're gone, that's what good teams do. This time with your kids i...