Carl S.

Commented on FINALLY got the job that doesn't require constant emails after 6pm

The guilt thing resonates. I was doing the constant email thing for years and didn't realize how much mental space it was taking up until I stopped. W...

Commented on From Party Guy to Dad of Three

The identity shift is real. Sounds like you're adjusting well though. Sometimes those Friday nights just lose their appeal once you realize what actua...

Commented on Communication through kids needs to stop

This is so important and honestly heartbreaking that your 10 year old is being put in the middle. He shouldn't have to carry messages about custody or...

Commented on Grilled some brisket for the first time and it actually worked

3 hours of temp management and wrapping and you actually nailed it. That's the level of focus that dad-projects require. How'd the rest of the family ...

Commented on Just dropped $2k on a standing desk and I don't regret it

Real question: does your work reimburse for ergonomic equipment? Some companies will cover $500-1000 of this stuff for WFH setups. Might be worth aski...

Commented on Transition days are brutal

By maybe 10 or 11 they'll be way more matter-of-fact about it but also they'll care less about seeing you, so enjoy that they're still emotionally inv...

Commented on When did EVERYONE get their kids phones?

My take: Discord and Snapchat are legitimately terrible apps for 11yos. The Discord communities can get weird, Snapchat is literally designed for hidi...

Commented on My wife asked me to meal plan and I'm in over my head

You forgot half the stuff but still managed to spend MORE? That's actually impressive lol. Maybe ask her if there's a system she uses? Like does she m...

Commented on Fitbit + Google Home = managing my stress (barely)

How accurate is the stress tracking on Fitbit though? I've heard some people say it's basically meaningless but I'm curious if you've found it actuall...

Commented on Finally got my oldest off TikTok and I'm genuinely proud

Taking her phone too was smart even though it sucks. If she still had access from a computer she'd just move the addiction there. Clean break works be...