Derek L.

Commented on My kid's school fundraiser has me feeling old

Man, just wait until your kid asks you about restaurants you went to as a kid and they're all closed. That'll really make you feel ancient.

Commented on Took my full 12 weeks paternity leave and have zero regrets

No regrets is the right mindset. Those first weeks when you can actually be hands-on with feedings, diaper changes, all of it - that bonds you in a wa...

Commented on What do you call a dad without kids

Your dad getting it is the real win here. That's the approval that matters.

Commented on Attempted sourdough starter. Need help.

Haha the sourdough journey is real. My wife gave me the same look when I started mine but fresh bread is worth the weirdness. Keep feeding it and you'...

Commented on Took paternity leave and now I'm worried about coming back

I coach little league and every time I'm away from the field for work, I feel that same anxiety. But you've done the hard part already - enjoyed those...

Commented on Promotion means more travel and I'm torn

That's a tough call. Better pay definitely helps the family, but if your wife's already got that look in her eye about it, the stress might not be wor...

Commented on DIY kitchen remodel - where to start?

8k is solid for a kitchen refresh if you do the work yourself. Since you've tackled renovations before, I'd suggest starting with the highest impact s...

Commented on Stressed about money and not seeing my kids

That's a tough spot, man. I get every other weekend with mine, but I've learned those focused hours count more than you'd think. Even a board game bef...

Commented on New gaming setup hits different when you have a quiet basement

That's awesome, man. The basement setup is a game changer once you get it dialed in. Just wait till your kid wants to hang down there with you sometim...

Commented on Finally got my fishing rod organized

Dude, tackle shop explosion is the dream setup. Nothing beats having everything ready to go when you actually get time to fish.