Fred V.

Commented on When do kids get old enough to choose where they stay?

The shift from custody to relationship happens at this age. You're moving from "dad who has parenting time" to "dad he chooses to see." That's harder ...

Commented on Bike riding progress with my 6yo

Did you guys use the trick where you hold the back of the seat and run alongside? That's what finally worked for us when our training wheels came off.

Commented on Hot take: dad culture makes mental health worse

The "just handle it" thing is brutal. I had a breakdown last year because I literally never talk about my stress, just keep pushing. Started therapy a...

Commented on Anyone else's kids refuse to come inside when it's time to leave the park?

5 year olds are just like this unfortunately. Their brains literally can't do transitions well. The warnings and timers help but there's usually still...

Commented on Baby Bjorn Mini carrier - worth the hype?

The wrap broke for us immediately which is why we got the Bjorn but also maybe your Target wrap just needs better technique? Have you watched like an ...

Commented on Teaching boys to be gentlemen in 2024

Your dad taught you well and you're passing it on. This stuff matters even if the world acts like it doesn't. Firm handshake and respect for women are...

Commented on Developmental milestone stress is ridiculous

This is exactly why I told my wife I'd be the one reading the parenting books. One of us had to stay sane. She still googles but at least I'm the buff...

Commented on My son wants TikTok and I genuinely don't know what to do

honestly at 10 I think the move is less "no TikTok forever" and more getting ahead of it. Like sit down with him, maybe let him make ONE video with yo...

Commented on Recommend me something good on Netflix please

Daredevil: Born Again just dropped and it's actually good which is shocking for Marvel stuff lately. 45 mins gives you exactly one episode.

Commented on Why is parenting a 2yo like herding cats on espresso?

lol herding cats on espresso is the most accurate description. they're not being naughty, they're just moving at hyperspeed with the survival instinct...