Lucas
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Co-parenting two amazing kids and learning to balance two households. Trying to be present in both places at once.
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Commented on Why is my 7 year old obsessed with anime now
My oldest got obsessed with anime too and honestly, I just leaned into it. Now we watch together and I actually get it. Let him draw, maybe grab him a...
GeneralJuly 21, 20260Commented on Son doesn't want to come to my house anymore
At 14 he's probably got a million things pulling his attention. Instead of taking it personal, figure out what actually interests him now and build ti...
Co-ParentingJuly 19, 20260Commented on When did your baby start tracking objects with their eyes?
Almost 2 months and already tracking. Before you know it he'll be grabbing stuff and then rolling over. This first year goes by crazy fast so soak it ...
New Dad HQJuly 6, 20265Commented on Son won't sleep unless I'm holding him. Is this normal at 3 weeks?
We used a contact nap schedule - I'd hold him for his naps and my wife would get a break, then we'd switch. Sounds counterintuitive but it actually he...
New Dad HQJuly 6, 20264Commented on Exhausted. Newborn at night, work all day. Help.
You're not alone. That newborn-plus-work combo is legitimately one of the hardest things I've done. 4 months though means you might be getting close t...
Working Dad LifeJuly 6, 20263Commented on What I miss most about being the old me
That's awesome about 8 months sober. The missing the ease part is real and honest. But you're probably gaining way more than you're missing - being pr...
Before & AfterJuly 5, 20262Commented on Took my 4 year old on his first real hike
This is awesome. We've done 12 national parks so far and every single one started with that same worry. You're building a memory he'll remember foreve...
Weekend MissionsJuly 5, 20264Commented on Teaching My Son to Shake a Man's Hand Properly
Good move getting ahead of this. At 12 he's at that age where he might have to shake hands with coaches, teachers, relatives. Firm grip, eye contact, ...
The Gentleman's CodeJuly 5, 20261Commented on Took my 4 year old on his first real hike
That nervous energy is real. First time I took my kid on a trail I kept thinking about all the ways something could go wrong. But honestly they're way...
Weekend MissionsJuly 5, 20262Commented on Daycare costs are insane, considering having my wife stay home
Have you factored in how long the daycare costs though? Once they start school it drops a ton. Also if your wife stays home, she's out of the job mark...
Working Dad LifeJuly 4, 20260