Nate K.

Commented on Anyone else binge watching The Office for the millionth time?

The Office is basically background noise at this point in my house. Your kids will understand the humor eventually, that's just how it works.

Commented on Depression made me a bad dad and I hate myself for it

Hey, the fact that you're recognizing this and getting help shows your kids everything they need to see about accountability. You're not a bad dad, yo...

Commented on Back to office 3 days a week starting Monday. How do I tell my boss I need flexibility?

The flexibility conversation is huge. I'd frame it around what actually matters to your company - deliverables and quality work, not butts in seats. R...

Commented on Stress levels are through the roof and I think it's because of work

This is the stuff that catches up with you if you don't address it. Your kids notice you're stressed and you notice you're missing them. Is there anyo...

Commented on Remote work has ruined commute forever

The mental adjustment is real. You get used to just being able to walk upstairs instead of dealing with traffic and rushed mornings. Now I've got to a...

Commented on The grocery store ice cream aisle hit different when you're a dad

Ha! The ice cream aisle paralysis is real. I'm standing there trying to remember which flavor my son hates now and whether my wife is on one of her ic...

Commented on Just went back to work after 2 weeks paternity leave and it's brutal

Day 3 back is still the hardest part. You're going through withdrawal. Just keep reminding yourself why you came back and that you'll see your baby at...

Commented on Smoking a brisket tomorrow, any last minute tips?

12lb is solid. I'd say stick with the 225-250 range, let it ride for about 12-14 hours, and don't mess with it too much. The biggest mistake I see is ...

Commented on Career pivot at 38 with three kids

Man, I get this. The fear is real when you've got three mouths to feed. But here's the thing - what's actually making you scared? Is it the money or i...

Commented on Got passed over for promotion because I refused to travel every week

I dealt with this same attitude at my company. The travel expectation was ridiculous and they made it seem like saying no meant you didn't care about ...