Randy B.

Commented on 50/50 custody but still paying child support, doesn't feel right

Even with 50/50 you're still supporting them financially which matters. That said, the courts look at income gap pretty hard. Talk to a lawyer if you ...

Commented on Stress levels through the roof lately

That's rough, sorry you're dealing with that stress. Board game night has been my escape when work gets messy - gives your brain permission to shut of...

Commented on Is it old-fashioned to expect respect from your kids

Respect is definitely not old-fashioned. That said, kids learn more from watching how we treat others than from being told what to say. Maybe model th...

Commented on Ex won't stick to pickup schedule, always late

That's frustrating. I'd be annoyed too if someone kept me waiting that consistently. Have you tried setting a hard boundary or switching the time?

Commented on Finally finishing my garage workbench after 3 years

That's awesome! I've been teaching my son some basic stuff in the garage and having a proper workbench setup makes all the difference. Does he want to...

Commented on YouTube Kids saved my sanity this week

No judgment here. When you're sick and need a break, you need a break. YouTube Kids is there for a reason, and keeping a 4yo safe and happy while you ...

Commented on How do you handle child support disagreements?

Got promoted myself a few years back and had the same gut feeling. Thing is, child support is supposed to reflect current income, so she's not wrong t...

Commented on My 6 year old just asked if Jesus really died for him

That's incredible. A year of consistency finally breaking through like that, that's what parenting is all about right there. You should be proud.

Commented on Leading by example with honesty

That takes real strength, man. My kids respect me way more when I'm honest with them about my mistakes than when I try to look perfect. You're setting...

Commented on Just got back from paternity leave and it's rough

I felt this in my bones. Single dad here and when I had to go back to work after some time off, it was brutal. You've got this though, and your wife's...