My son just turned 3 months and some days he'll sleep 4 hours straight, other days he's up every 90 minutes. We're doing the SNOO and it helps but I feel like we're not following any real pattern yet. Is this normal? Everyone keeps telling me to "just wait it out" but I'm exhausted and my wife is ev...
Looking for a therapist who specifically gets the dad thing and ideally one who isn't gonna make me feel bad about WFH and then feeling obligated to do all the evening childcare. My kids are 4 and 6. Tried someone at Thriveworks but they weren't clicking with me. Would appreciate any recs, preferabl...
Okay so her parents are constantly telling our kids to ignore our rules when they visit. We said no screens before bed but grandma lets them play on tablets till 10pm. We're trying to teach them to respect authority and follow through on consequences but it's impossible when family is sabotaging us....
So my youngest was watching something on YouTube (I was in the room) and one video ended and the recommended video auto-played. He literally said "oh the algorithm is doing it again." I'm not sure if I should be proud he understands concepts like that or horrified that he understands algorithms at 6...
Is it worth it? We live near one and my kids ask constantly. I know it's not "healthy" but like... sometimes daddy needs to sit for 20 minutes with a coffee while they climb on stuff. My wife acts like I'm taking them to a hazardous waste facility when I suggest it. Ngl I think she's overreacting bu...
Between work being insane and kid activities and house stuff, I can't remember the last time I just sat down for a few hours. Wife mentioned it the other day and I was like "wait... she's right." Super grateful for my kids and all that but man, I need like one day where nothing is scheduled and nobo...
Rain is supposed to last all weekend and I've got my 3yo and 6yo stuck inside. Want to do something besides screens but don't want to go crazy with supplies. What do you all do? We've done painting but that requires like an hour of prep and cleanup. Looking for something simpler that won't require m...
Transition days are just the worst at my house. My kids (7 and 10) get weird and argumentative, they're never ready when I pick them up, they fight about what to bring, it's just chaos. Not their fault—I know transitions are hard on kids—but man it makes my stress spike. Does anyone have routines th...
I was skeptical about screen time but honestly this show is a game-changer. My 4yo watches like 20 mins a day and now he actually *wants* to play imaginative games with me afterwards instead of asking for more screen time. Plus the parenting advice they slip in? Watched the "Sleepover" episode and l...
Got offered a position that pays like 15% more but it's got a brutal commute (I'm in Phoenix area). Right now I do 20 min each way and see my kids before bed. This job would probably be 45+ minutes with traffic. Money would genuinely help - we've got college starting in a few years and it's stressi...
Taking my two kids (6 and 9) camping for the first time this summer. I've created a spreadsheet with meal plans, a packing list that's 47 items long, and researched the campground's amenities. My buddy thinks I'm insane. But like... we're in the middle of nowhere with two kids, right? Some planning ...
Saw a dad at the grocery store yesterday with his baby in one of those baby carriers and I could see the carrier wasn't positioned super ergonomically. My gut instinct was to be like "hey man just FYI that might hurt your back" but I didn't wanna be that guy. Got me thinking though - in this communi...
Been wanting to live out my faith at work instead of just keeping it to Sunday. Started meeting 2 guys from my team every Thursday morning before work to read scripture and pray. It's only been 3 weeks but honestly it's changing how I show up in the office. More patient, less complaining, actually t...
I've tried Google Calendar blocking, Toggl, RescueTime, all that stuff. The problem is I *block* the time but then something "urgent" comes up and I move it anyway. Looking for something that either: - Makes it genuinely hard to override family time blocks - Or sends my wife a notification if I del...
Let her pick a recipe (chocolate chip cookies) and we made them from scratch. She measured, mixed, did the whole thing with only minimal help. Yeah the kitchen was a disaster and some of the cookies came out weird shaped, but watching her pull them out of the oven and actually eat something she made...