I explicitly told my boss that I need to be home by 6pm to help with bedtime routine. He knows I have three kids. So WHY does he keep scheduling calls at 4:30pm that "definitely" run past 5:30? I've left early twice anyway - staying late is not negotiable - but now I'm worried it's impacting how he ...
Kid asked why the bananas were green and I said 'because they haven't seen the sun enough' and now he wants to take them outside for tanning sessions. I've created a monster. This is my life now
Started taking my anxiety meds 6 weeks ago and finally feel like they're kicking in. Actually stayed late at work today WANTING to finish a project instead of just wanting to escape. My boss even mentioned I seem more engaged. It's wild how much a difference this made. Still have bad days but they'r...
Work is insane, kids are needy, wife's frustrated with me for not helping enough even though I feel like I'm doing everything, and I'm tired all the time. Like bone-deep tired. Not sleeping well, no energy, food tastes weird. Can't remember the last time I did something just for me. Everyone depends...
First kid due in August. We live in an urban area (Portland) with lots of stairs and mixed terrain. The Uppababy Vista keeps getting recommended but it's so expensive. Bugaboo seems cooler but also expensive. Are these worth it or am I getting suckered by marketing? What do you all actually use?
My daughter starts K next month and I need a lunch box that: - Actually keeps food cold (our current one is trash) - Doesn't fall apart after 2 weeks - Is small enough for a 5yo to open/close - Won't cost me $40 Been seeing the Bentgo boxes everywhere but wondering if they're worth the hype or jus...
Genuine question. When I work past 6pm, which has been 2-3x a week lately, my wife handles bedtime solo and says the kids are bouncing off walls because they know dad might still show up. Then I DO show up at 7pm and obviously they want to hang out. Bedtime becomes 8:30 or 9. We're all miserable. Am...
So I was that guy who obsessed over my car, spent weekends detailing it, went to car meets every month, had a whole community around it. First time my son got in the car seat I was terrified he'd spill something. Now? There's goldfish crackers literally everywhere and you know what, I don't care any...
My kid actually came home today and told me a dad joke HE made up. It was terrible. I was so proud I actually teared up a little. 'Why did the math book look sad? Because it had too many problems!' I'm gonna frame this moment forever.
Our company just partnered with this flex-work platform and I'm thinking about setting up a Tue/Wed/Thu in-office schedule. Has anyone here used it? Worried about whether employers actually respect it or if it's just a box they tick.
So about 3 months ago I made a rule that gaming/devices weren't allowed until after 4pm on weekends. My 12yo complained for like 2 weeks straight, but then something clicked. He started skateboarding again, built a little ramp in the driveway with me, even dragged his friends outside. Now he WANTS t...
My 9yo asked me why I was sad yesterday. I've been dealing with depression on and off for years but never really discussed it with the kids. Told him I was just tired but he seemed like he wanted to know more. Not sure if explaining it would help him understand his dad better or just worry him more....
My 10yo came back from a weekend and mentioned that his mom's boyfriend was "helping him with homework" and correcting him at dinner. He seemed bothered by it. I didn't make a big deal but I'm bothered. That's my kid's other parent's job, not her new boyfriend's. Should I say something to my ex? I ...
Want to get my boys on a real budget system before they turn 16. Thinking chores tied to actual earnings, them managing their own money, learning consequences. Should I use cash only or is an app okay? What age is appropriate to start this?
Serious question - my buddies think I'm crazy but I grill like 4-5 times a week. I've got my temps down, my technique refined, and I just invested in a pellet smoker because why not. My wife says the backyard smells like smoke 24/7 and she's probably right. But the brisket last night was absolutely ...