We're bottle feeding formula and our pediatrician said to do 8 oz every 3-4 hours. My son is 2 months old. Some days he seems ravenous and finishes it in like 10 minutes, other days he won't finish. Are we overfeeding? Should we follow his cues or stick to the schedule? Also how do other dads handle...
I want to make sure I'm raising my boy right. Not just in the obvious ways like respecting women and working hard, but the smaller things too. How he shakes a hand, how he carries himself, taking responsibility for his mistakes without making excuses. My own dad taught me these things but it's harde...
His friends all have iPhones and he's starting middle school next year. I feel like I'm holding out but honestly at what point is it ridiculous? He says he needs it for group chats and feels left out. I'm leaning toward getting him one but with serious restrictions, maybe one of those parental contr...
My 7yo asked me why the cookie went to the doctor. I said because it felt crumbly. She groaned so hard but then she laughed and kept repeating it all day. Small win but I'll take it. This is what parenthood is all about right here.
Used to be really out of shape, probably 80 pounds overweight. Couldn't keep up with my kids, got winded playing in the yard. Started working out about 2 years ago just because I was tired of being tired. Lost the weight, got stronger, and something shifted mentally too. I have way more patience, sl...
I don't usually post personal stuff but figured someone here might need to hear this. I was drinking every night for years. Not the fun party kind, just numbing myself kind. My kids remember a dad who was absent even when he was there. Did a program, got sober, went to therapy. Three years now. Hard...
Taking my 3yo and 6yo camping for the first time this weekend. We're just doing a state park about 45 min away, one night in a cabin. Got the gear ready but I'm nervous about keeping them entertained and dealing with bedtime outside. Any advice from guys who've done this? Should I plan activities or...
Moved from a big city to a small town when my oldest was born. It was terrifying, gave up a career I worked 10 years to build. But my wife's family was here and we wanted to raise kids differently. Now we're 8 years in and I can't imagine going back. My kids actually know their neighbors, play outsi...
Trying to get the whole family into hiking. Started with super easy trails but now my kids actually want to go. Last weekend we did a 4 mile loop and my 6yo did the whole thing. Been planning bigger trips for next year. It's a way better alternative to being inside all week and the kids sleep so goo...
We just got home from the hospital this morning and our son is sleeping but I keep checking if he's breathing. Every little noise freaks me out. My wife is exhausted and sleeping but I can't turn my brain off. Is this normal or am I losing it?
Real leadership isn't about commanding a room or being the loudest voice. My dad taught me that a real man leads quietly through his actions and integrity. At work I don't need to prove anything or raise my voice. I show up prepared, I follow through, I treat everyone from the janitor to the CEO wit...
Decided to save money and install new kitchen cabinets myself instead of hiring someone. Watched a bunch of YouTube videos, felt confident, bought the hardware, and then realized the walls are crooked. Now I've got 4 cabinets that don't line up and my wife thinks it's hilarious that I'm out here wit...
Took my two sons and my buddy's three kids camping up north last weekend. No cell service, just tents, fishing, and cooking over a fire. My 8 year old caught his first fish and didn't stop smiling for hours. We made terrible campfire food, told dumb jokes, and slept like rocks. Coming home the kids ...
Know it sounds old fashioned but I hand write thank you notes after gifts, dinner invites, job interviews, everything. Takes 10 minutes. My kids think I'm crazy but people remember it. Had a hiring manager tell me 3 years later that my note was the reason they picked me over another candidate. Littl...
Had my 8 year old meet my boss at the company picnic last weekend. Kid gave him one of those limp fish handshakes and I about died. Spent the whole drive home talking about firm grip, eye contact, and saying sir/ma'am. My old man did the same with me and I'm grateful for it. These small things matte...