On one hand I get to see my kids at lunch and do pickup without stress. On the other hand my boss expects me to be available at 8pm for emails and I can't seem to shut work brain off when I'm in the same house. My wife is frustrated because I'm technically home but not really present. I need to set ...
Took the family camping last weekend at a state park about 45 mins away. Weather report said clear skies all weekend. We get there Friday evening and by Saturday morning it's pouring rain. Our tent held up but the kids were bored out of their minds in the RV. We ended up just playing board games and...
I'm honestly struggling here guys. I want to be the man of faith and peace that I know I should be for my family but some days work just grinds me down and I come home angry. My kids see that and it breaks me. I've been praying about it more and trying to intentionally check my attitude at the door ...
Been wanting to smoke a brisket for months but kept psyching myself out. Finally did it last Saturday. Woke up at 5am, got the smoker going, and let it ride for 14 hours. Used a simple rub, kept the temp steady around 225, and just trusted the process. Family said it was the best meat they've had. S...
My wife is resting but I keep getting up to check if our daughter is breathing. Is this normal? I know the app said newborns sleep a lot but every little noise she makes sends me into panic mode. Anyone else go through this or am I just being paranoid?
Used to pack a bag on Friday and just road trip wherever. No plans, no reservations, just drive. Now I've got a mortgage, two kids in school, and I plan my life 3 months in advance. There's definitely something I miss about that freedom but having a real home base with family waiting for me is diffe...
Started at 6am, didn't wrap till noon, then just kept the temp steady at 225 and let it ride. Pulled it at 10pm and it was perfect. Crust was crispy, meat was tender, and my family actually ate the leftovers without complaining. Gonna do it again next weekend because apparently I found my calling.
Long story short me and my ex are going back to court because she wants to modify custody. We've been coparenting pretty well for 3 years but apparently she thinks the kids should be with her more during school year. My lawyer says we'll need a custody evaluation with a child psychologist. I'm worri...
Worked for a year to set this up with my company and finally got the green light for 3 full weeks when the baby comes in July. I know a lot of guys don't get this chance and I'm just grateful. My boss has been supportive which helps. Really want to be there for my wife and bond with the baby during ...
He's 10 and asking for a phone like all his friends have. I'm not against it but I want to wait a little longer. Wife thinks I'm being overprotective. What age did you guys give your kids phones and did you regret it? I'm thinking 12 at the earliest but want to hear from other parents about what's r...
Been working with my 8 year old on his handshake. Firm grip, eye contact, clear voice when he says his name. My old man taught me this way and it matters. Took him to church last Sunday and he shook the pastor's hand like a man should. Pastor even commented on it. Small thing but it sets the tone fo...
She texts constantly and now she's calling multiple times on days the kids are with me. Says it's emergencies but it's usually just stuff that can wait til I drop them off. I feel like she can't let go of control when they're not in her house. I try to be cordial but this is driving me insane. It's ...
Bought a new rod and took my older boy out to the lake last Saturday. Didn't catch much but that wasn't really the point. Just being out on the water early in the morning with some coffee and someone who's interested in what I'm doing felt amazing. Already planning the next trip and checking reports...
Been at my company for 5 years and they finally approved my request. Baby number 2 is due in 6 weeks. Part of me is excited to actually be there for the first two weeks but honestly I'm freaking out about what's piling up at work. My boss keeps saying "we'll figure it out" but I know that really mea...
My 12 year old came back from his mom's house saying he doesn't want to come to my place anymore. She's been telling him stuff like I don't care about his sports or that I'm only around on weekends so I don't matter. I don't want to bad mouth her to him but this is breaking me. Has anyone dealt with...