Been on paternity leave for 6 weeks and tomorrow I go back. My daughter is almost 2 months old and I'm dreading it so much. Feels like I'm abandoning them even though logically I know someone needs to pay the bills. Wife keeps saying it's fine but I can tell she's stressed about being alone with the...
My son is 5 weeks and sometimes when I talk to him his mouth twitches and I swear he's almost smiling but I know that's not real smiles yet. When did your babies actually give you that first real smile where you knew they recognized you? Can't wait for that moment honestly.
Took him months of practice and he finally got through a whole book by himself today. It was one of those little Bob Books and he was so proud. Every word had him sounding it out super slow but he didn't give up. At the end he looked up at me like he'd just won the Super Bowl. I told him I was proud...
Been praying every morning for about 6 months now, specifically asking God to help me be the father and husband my family needs. I'm not gonna lie, some mornings I'm just going through the motions. But I've noticed I'm way less quick to anger when the kids are acting up. Yesterday my daughter spille...
My boss said ties were optional now. I still wear one. There's something about getting dressed properly that puts you in the right mindset. You carry yourself different when you're dressed with intention. You act different. Work matters and showing up to do your best matters. The way you present you...
Started a starter like 5 days ago. Made my first loaf yesterday and actually turned out pretty decent. Still learning but the crumb structure looked right. My family ate half of it before it even cooled down. Trying again this weekend with some adjustments. Anyone else do sourdough? What's your time...
We just moved to a new neighborhood and I'm on a mission to find the best pizza spot. So far I've hit up 3 places. Nothing amazing yet. What do you guys recommend where you live? Looking for that sweet spot between authentic and actually good
He's 6 weeks old and today when I was changing his diaper he looked right at me and smiled. I know logically it's probably just gas but man it hit different. My wife said it's a real smile and he's been more interactive the past few days. I feel like the sleepless nights are finally worth it. Anyone...
My son is 4 months old and we're thinking about doing some form of sleep training. He's up 4-5 times a night still and it's killing us. I read about the Ferber method but it makes me feel guilty. Did anyone actually do this successfully or are we better off just waiting it out? Looking for honest ex...
Been slowly taking over the garage on weekends to set up a real woodworking space. Built shelves, organized tools, set up a workbench. The compromise is I have to keep the front half clear for cars but I finally have space to actually make stuff instead of working on the driveway. Already finished t...
Took the crew camping in the state forest about an hour away. Looked great on the map but turned out to be more of a test of patience than a relaxing getaway. One kid got sick, it rained harder than expected, and the cooler somehow fell in the creek. But here's the thing - we made it work, the kids ...
We were at the grocery store and an older lady told us how well behaved our kids were while waiting in line. They actually sat there quietly without complaining. My wife and I looked at each other like did that really just happen? Made us feel like we're doing something right for once.
Looking for recommendations for a good breakfast place that doesn't break the bank. Preferably somewhere that doesn't take forever to get seated on weekends. My usual spot got way too crowded lately.
Three months longer than I planned but it's done. Pressure treated pine, proper footings, and I made sure every board is level. Spent last weekend staining it with the boys helping out. My wife cried when she saw it finished, which made the whole thing worth it. Planning to build some planter boxes ...
Finally getting my parents to watch the baby for 4 hours Saturday afternoon. My wife and I are going to grab lunch and just walk around without carrying a diaper bag. Might hit up that new brewery downtown. What's everyone else doing? Anyone else have plans that don't involve kids for once?