My oldest is 12 and keeps bugging me for a phone. All his friends apparently have one. I'm not sure if I'm being overprotective or if 12 is actually too young. Looking for some real perspective from other parents on this. What age did you think was right?
My 5 year old has watched every single dinosaur documentary on Netflix at least twice. We went to the natural history museum last weekend and he lost his mind at the T-Rex skeleton. Now he wants dino toys for his birthday, dino pajamas, dino everything. Not complaining though, beats the phase where ...
This morning my 11 month old let go of the couch and walked straight to me. Four wobbly steps but he made it. He looked at me like 'did you see that dad?' and I immediately called my mom, my wife's mom, my brother, all my work friends. Best day of my life so far. He can barely walk and can't even ta...
I really think I need to talk to someone about my stress and everything going on, but therapy is crazy expensive. Our insurance barely covers it and I don't have time to search for someone in network. Are there any decent free or cheap resources out there? I've heard about online therapy but not sur...
I've been dealing with pretty bad anxiety for the past year or so. Constantly worried about money, my kids getting hurt, health stuff. It's affecting how I interact with my family. I'm snapping at my wife and kids over nothing and then feeling guilty about it. I know I should get help but I'm terrif...
This is the third time in two months she's asking to swap weekends without proper notice. I get that stuff comes up but I had plans with the kids already - took time off work and everything. How do you guys handle this without being the bad guy? I don't want to be rigid but I also can't keep droppin...
There's a big difference. My sons hold doors, they say yes ma'am, they're courteous and thoughtful. But they're not doormats and they don't lose themselves trying to impress a girl. I taught them to lead with respect and expect the same in return. A man should be strong, decisive, and kind all at th...
Started doing Sunday meal prep about a month ago and it's been a total game changer for our family. I usually spend 2-3 hours on Sunday cooking up proteins, chopping veggies, and prepping stuff I can throw together quick during the week. Wife thinks I'm crazy but she also loves not having to figure ...
Been thinking about this a lot lately. My oldest caught me being less than honest about something small and called me out on it. Really humbling moment where I realized I need to live what I'm teaching, not just say it. Now trying to be intentional about modeling integrity in little things. Taking t...
He said 'I thought dads don't read instructions?' I told him that's only when mom's not looking. He's 7 and already catching on to our culture.
Just wanted to share something positive here because this forum can be pretty heavy. My ex and I were in a really bad place, couldn't talk without yelling, making decisions about the kids was a nightmare. We both went to separate therapists and then started doing co-parenting sessions together with ...
Started at 10pm Friday with a 14 pound brisket, kept the temp at 225 degrees, wrapped it in butcher paper around hour 8, and pulled it at 2pm Saturday. Let it rest for 30 minutes and sliced it up. The bark was perfect and the meat just fell apart. My kids actually ate it without complaining which ne...
Looking to upgrade from my beat up weber to something better but our patio is tiny. Thinking about a pellet grill but they're pricey. Anyone have experience with the smaller Traeger models or should I stick with gas? Want to be able to smoke some ribs and brisket on weekends but don't have room for ...
I know it probably wasn't a real smile and more of a gas thing but my 6 week old looked right at me and smiled. Nothing has made me feel this way before. Told my wife and she already got it on video. I don't even care if it was gas, that's my kid's first smile and I'm documenting everything from her...
After 3 weekends of blood sweat and splinters, the back deck is finally done. The kids helped a little bit but mostly just got in the way lol. Already planning the first cookout. Feels good to actually complete a project with two kids running around.