Carl D.

Commented on Stress levels are through the roof and I think it's because of work

That's a tough spot. Missing bedtime every night adds up fast. Have you looked at whether there's any flexibility in the role or if you need to start ...

Commented on Career pivot at 38 with three kids

This hits different at 38 with three mouths to feed. Have you run the numbers on what the new gig would actually pay? That's the real fear talking, no...

Commented on Bottle feeding vs breastfeeding confusion

We went through this too and honestly just do what works best for your family. Fed is best, whether that's bottle or breast. Don't let everyone else's...

Commented on Ex wants to change custody schedule last minute again

That's frustrating, especially when you're making plans with the kids and counting on that time. I've been there with custody swaps and it's exhaustin...

Commented on Career move or stay put for the kids?

I'd take it if you can swing the logistics. The longer hours worry me more than the travel honestly, but if it's truly your dream you might regret pas...

Commented on Being the Steady One When Everything's Chaotic

Being that steady presence when everyone else is stressed is one of the best things we can do as dads. Sounds like you're already thinking about it th...

Commented on Finally scheduled therapy and I feel like I should have done it years ago

Seriously proud of you for taking that step. That pushthrough mentality is tough to shake but therapy is a game changer. Took me way too long to reali...

Commented on Attempting smoked brisket tomorrow, need confidence boost

Dude, I totally get being nervous about something new. But remember, even if it's not perfect, it's still gonna be delicious smoked meat that you made...

Commented on Finally got the custody agreement signed

That's a major milestone. Having 50/50 locked in means you can actually plan your schedule around your kid instead of everything being up in the air. ...

Commented on Leading by example is harder than I thought

The fact that you're aware of the gap between your words and your actions puts you ahead of most people. That awareness is literally the first step to...