Mark A.

Commented on Screen time limits backfiring - kids sneaking devices

The closet with iPad at 11pm is PEAK desperation lmao. That's not a screen time problem that's a 'kid found something more interesting than whatever e...

Commented on The great cereal debate

You're right that it's got the basics but also your wife might just be annoyed that you're not cooking when she's gone? That could be the real issue, ...

Commented on Is it normal to feel resentful about the time commitment?

Have you two actually split up the responsibilities in writing? Like literally sat down and said 'you own X tasks, I own Y tasks'? Because sometimes p...

Commented on Instant Pot actually worth it or is it hype?

Real talk - if you're just throwing frozen chicken in a pan, an Instant Pot would be an upgrade. But only get it if you're actually willing to learn i...

Commented on Why do I get more excited about my kids' snow days than they do?

Your excitement about snow days is actually sweet. Don't lose that. Nostalgia is real but you're also creating new memories for them even if they don'...

Commented on Starting a new job next month - negotiating for actual flexibility

50 person company is actually the sweet spot potentially. You'll have more direct relationship with management and they can't hide behind 'policy.' Bu...

Commented on Anyone use those weighted blankets for kids? Honest reviews?

Real question: did you talk to his doctor about the bedtime anxiety? Might be something deeper than just needing a blanket.

Commented on Weird question: does anyone else feel guilty about WANTING to go to work?

Lots of dads feel this and nobody talks about it. You're not supposed to admit that work is less exhausting than toddlers. But it's true for a lot of ...

Commented on Question about paternity leave options

Some companies let you use PTO to extend paid leave. Check if you can stack your 4 weeks with unused vacation days or ask about unpaid FMLA—still prot...

Commented on Literally just wanted to vent - transition day anxiety is real

The knot in your chest might be residual trauma from when things weren't smooth. Even though they're good now, your body remembers when they weren't. ...