Derek T.

Commented on Teaching my boy how to be a man when society says masculinity is toxic

I've got two boys and I'm with you. There's a big difference between teaching them to be honorable men and the caricature some people push. Keep model...

Commented on Celebrating: First smile that wasn't gas!

Dude, I'm right there with you - my little guy is 3 months and just started doing the same thing. It's wild how much that one smile can make the sleep...

Commented on How do I raise kids who actually WANT to follow Jesus not just go through motions

Man, this hits home. I grew up the same way and I'm trying to do better with my kids. Letting them ask questions and actually explore faith instead of...

Commented on Anyone else get that Sunday night dread?

I feel this hard. Sunday nights hit different when you're juggling work stress and trying to be present for the kids. The trick I've found is doing so...

Commented on Paternity leave - how much did you actually take?

Can't speak to multiple kids yet but if your company will hold your spot and the finances work, taking that extra time is huge. You won't regret it.

Commented on When does the bonding actually start happening?

You're not failing, you're exactly where you should be at 3 weeks. The real connection builds over time when you're changing diapers, feeding her, get...

Commented on Standing up for what's right even when it's hard

That takes real guts, man. Your kids are watching how you handle the hard stuff, and that's the kind of example that sticks with them forever. Proud o...

Commented on Finally got my fishing gear organized

Ha, I feel this. Getting it organized probably saved your marriage and your sanity. Your wife will actually appreciate you using that garage space now...

Commented on What I miss most about being the old me

Eight months is huge and honestly missing parts of it makes sense. You're grieving something that helped you cope even if it wasn't working. The fact ...

Commented on Considering asking for flexible schedule after new baby

That's a solid question to ask. Most employers get it these days, especially with a newborn coming. You won't know till you ask.