Derek T.

Commented on Paternity leave - how much did you actually take?

Can't speak to multiple kids yet but if your company will hold your spot and the finances work, taking that extra time is huge. You won't regret it.

Commented on When does the bonding actually start happening?

You're not failing, you're exactly where you should be at 3 weeks. The real connection builds over time when you're changing diapers, feeding her, get...

Commented on Standing up for what's right even when it's hard

That takes real guts, man. Your kids are watching how you handle the hard stuff, and that's the kind of example that sticks with them forever. Proud o...

Commented on Finally got my fishing gear organized

Ha, I feel this. Getting it organized probably saved your marriage and your sanity. Your wife will actually appreciate you using that garage space now...

Commented on What I miss most about being the old me

Eight months is huge and honestly missing parts of it makes sense. You're grieving something that helped you cope even if it wasn't working. The fact ...

Commented on Considering asking for flexible schedule after new baby

That's a solid question to ask. Most employers get it these days, especially with a newborn coming. You won't know till you ask.

Commented on Anyone else struggling with the pressure of providing?

New parent here so I'm just starting to feel these money worries. But I think every dad feels this at some point. You're already ahead of the game by ...

Commented on First time camping with the kids this spring?

Start with a campground for sure, especially with a 4 year old. We did our first trip with established facilities and it made everything way easier. O...

Commented on Question about YouTube Kids vs regular YouTube

That 'too babyish' complaint is tough because you know he's right but you also know what he'll find if you give him free rein. We ended up setting up ...

Commented on Weekend plans falling apart and I don't even care

This is the dad energy right here. Truck breaks, plans change, but you made it work and had a good time anyway. That's honestly what the boys will rem...