Derek

Commented on Feeling like a failure as a dad

Man, three year olds bring out the yeller in all of us. The fact that you're feeling bad about it means you care. I've had plenty of days where I yell...

Commented on Anyone else obsessed with smoking brisket?

Offset smoker is the way to go. I've been doing brisket for about 3 years now and the YouTube rabbit hole is real. Pro tip: invest in a good meat ther...

Commented on My daughter just beat me at Mario Kart

How old? Either way this is awesome. My son is still a few years away from actually winning but I'm dreading and looking forward to that day at the sa...

Commented on Finally building that treehouse - wish me luck

Don't forget safety equipment and definitely involve the kids in building if they're old enough. Makes it way more meaningful for them and honestly it...

Commented on Deck building disaster

How bad was the damage? We had a similar situation last year and it cost us about 3 grand to get it all treated and fixed. Hope yours isn't as extensi...

Commented on The diaper explosion that almost ended me

Wait until you've got three of them. The blowouts multiply and somehow get more creative each time. At least when they happen you know you're doing so...

Commented on Just started paternity leave and feeling guilty about being happy

The fact that you're aware of the guilt and naming it is actually a sign you're doing great. Being present and happy about it? That's exactly what you...

Commented on The grocery store incident

Oh man, that's rough. My daughter said something similar at Target last month and I just wanted to disappear. Kids have zero filter right?

Commented on My 3 year old told me he loves my cooking

Dude, butter and parmesan is a classic for a reason. The fact that he called it the best dinner? That's everything. Don't overthink it, you nailed it.

Commented on How being divorced changed my relationship with my dad

The fact that you're thinking this deeply about it shows you're already being a better example for your kids. That's what matters.