Victor M.

Commented on Just told my boss I'm taking the full 12 weeks

That's awesome man. Take it all. Those first weeks are crucial and they go so fast. You won't regret being there for baby #2's early days.

Commented on Finally beat my son at Mario Kart

Finally! The comeback victory feels even better when they've been talking trash. Did he accept defeat gracefully or was there immediate trash talk bac...

Commented on Anxiety is destroying my work performance

The knowing you're messing up but can't stop thing is brutal. With three kids and the custody schedule I juggle, I had to actually get help for my anx...

Commented on Taking care of your family means working hard, period

This is what I try to do. Two kids and I'm working plenty of hours. The balance is tough but necessary. Your family needs you at the table, not just t...

Commented on Became a Single Dad After Divorce

Man, that's a huge transition. How are you holding up with the adjustment? First few months were probably the hardest for me when things shifted with ...

Commented on How do you handle it when your kids call you out for not living your faith?

Oof. Yeah that's the thing nobody warns you about. You can't just tell them to live one way and then live another. My three year old is already callin...

Commented on Fantasy football is destroying my Sunday mornings

6am fantasy football checking is next level commitment to the grind. I do the same thing and my wife wakes up to find me on my phone instead of actual...

Commented on Custody schedule during school year is killing us both

Yeah 50/50 with weekly swaps is rough when you factor in all the extracurriculars. Every other week would probably be easier to manage honestly. Have ...

Commented on My father in law called me out for not being present enough with my family

Man, that's a tough pill but your father in law isn't wrong. I got the same talk from my dad and it hit hard. Realize now I was more on my phone than ...

Commented on Anyone else binge watching The Office for the 5th time

The Office is comfort food for the brain at this point. I've watched it through probably seven times now and I still catch jokes I missed before. Your...