Victor M.

Commented on Taking care of your family means working hard, period

This is what I try to do. Two kids and I'm working plenty of hours. The balance is tough but necessary. Your family needs you at the table, not just t...

Commented on Became a Single Dad After Divorce

Man, that's a huge transition. How are you holding up with the adjustment? First few months were probably the hardest for me when things shifted with ...

Commented on How do you handle it when your kids call you out for not living your faith?

Oof. Yeah that's the thing nobody warns you about. You can't just tell them to live one way and then live another. My three year old is already callin...

Commented on Fantasy football is destroying my Sunday mornings

6am fantasy football checking is next level commitment to the grind. I do the same thing and my wife wakes up to find me on my phone instead of actual...

Commented on Custody schedule during school year is killing us both

Yeah 50/50 with weekly swaps is rough when you factor in all the extracurriculars. Every other week would probably be easier to manage honestly. Have ...

Commented on My father in law called me out for not being present enough with my family

Man, that's a tough pill but your father in law isn't wrong. I got the same talk from my dad and it hit hard. Realize now I was more on my phone than ...

Commented on Anyone else binge watching The Office for the 5th time

The Office is comfort food for the brain at this point. I've watched it through probably seven times now and I still catch jokes I missed before. Your...

Commented on How do you teach your boys to be men in 2024?

Real talk - it's about teaching them to think for themselves and have their own values instead of just following whatever they see online or what thei...

Commented on Ex not following custody schedule again

I feel you. When my ex does stuff like that it's like she's testing the waters to see what she can get away with. You gotta enforce those boundaries o...

Commented on 3 years ago I was a high powered lawyer. Now I'm a stay at home dad and I don't regret it.

I'm still in the thick of it with a newborn and toddler, but reading this makes me wonder if the hustle is even worth it. Good on you for choosing dif...