Wife and I want to update our kitchen and I'm gonna do most of the work myself to save money. I've got the demolition planned and new cabinets ordered. Never done plumbing before though so I'm watching YouTube videos. Should I just hire someone for that part or is it doable if you take your time? I ...
Spent the last three weekends getting my garage sorted with new shelving and tool organization. Everything has a place now and I can actually find stuff without moving ten boxes. Also cleared space for a workbench so I can finally start that woodworking project I've been planning. It's not much but ...
We've been watching Planet Earth together on Sunday mornings for like a year. Last night at dinner she told everyone that's what she wants to study in college because I showed her how cool the ocean is. I'm not crying you're crying. Got her a book on ocean animals for her birthday next month.
Been putting this off for 2 years. Just got pegboard up, tool cabinet set up, and a workbench that actually has space to work on. Wife thinks I'm crazy for being excited about labeled drawers but man it feels good. Might actually be able to finish projects now without spending 30 minutes looking for...
Been working with him on this for months. Today he finally got both shoes tied and didn't even ask for help. The look of pride on his face was priceless. He kept showing everyone at pickup like he just won the lottery. Already planning to take him shoe shopping this weekend so he can practice on new...
Got offered a promotion at work that would be amazing for my career. More money, better title, exactly what I've been working toward for 5 years. Catch is it's a lot more hours and traveling 20% of the time. My kids are 7 and 4. Boss wants an answer by Friday. Part of me knows this is the move that ...
My 8 and 11 year old have started asking why we have to go to church every Sunday when their friends get to sleep in or play. I want them to understand faith is important but I'm struggling to explain it in a way that clicks for them. Anyone else dealt with this? I don't want to just say 'because I ...
He's 12 now and I want to make sure he understands what it means to carry himself with integrity. Not trying to be preachy but stuff like looking people in the eye, firm handshake, keeping your word when you say something. How do you guys approach this without sounding like your old man?
Trying to get back into grilling but I'm tired of the same old chicken breasts. What do you guys throw on there during the week when you don't have all day? Thinking something that cooks fast and doesn't require a ton of prep.
My 5yo asked me this morning and I froze. How the hell are you supposed to explain divorce to a kindergartener? I just said mommy and daddy love you very much but we're living in different houses now. My lawyer said don't badmouth the other parent but I'm worried I'm handling this all wrong. Any adv...
My dad ruled with an iron fist and honestly it made me resentful as a kid. I'm trying to be different with my own boys. I want them to respect my decisions and follow my leadership because it makes sense, not because they're scared of me. Trying to find that balance between firm and fair. Anyone els...
Her lawyer is asking for more than what the guidelines suggest. I make decent money but I've still got bills and I want to be able to take my kids on vacations and do stuff with them. Feels like I'm being punished for working hard. My lawyer says we can negotiate but I'm exhausted by all this alread...
Just realized I've been wearing the same 3 t-shirts and basketball shorts for like 2 years. Even when we go out as a family I'm a mess. My dad always looked put together and I remember feeling proud of that. Thinking about getting some decent clothes and keeping myself groomed better. Sets an exampl...
Okay that show hit different now that I'm a dad. Not gonna spoil anything but wow. The whole thing about protecting your kid and what you'd do for them just hits harder now. My wife watched it with me and we both got emotional. Needed something good to watch after the kids went to bed and I definite...
My daughter smiled at me for the first time today and I legit got emotional. I know it's probably gas but it didn't feel like gas. She's 6 weeks old and I'm already obsessed. How am I supposed to ever let this girl date anyone? Sorry just had to share this moment.