Made a deal with my neighbor on a property line issue. No lawyers, no paperwork, just our word and a handshake. His dad did the same thing with my dad 30 years ago. That's how you operate as a gentleman. You don't need contracts and courts if both men have honor. Seems like this is a dying concept t...
I read something that said a man's job is to lead his family with purpose and integrity. That stuck with me. It doesn't mean being a dictator or making all the decisions. It means being the guy your wife and kids can count on, making tough calls when needed, taking responsibility when things go wron...
Growing up my dad taught me to work hard, keep my word, treat women with respect, and own my mistakes. Simple stuff but it mattered. Now I'm raising two boys and there's so much noise out there about what manhood is supposed to be. I try to model integrity in my daily life, show them how to do thing...
My 13 year old has been asking for a gaming PC for months. I finally caved because he's doing okay in school and he saves his own money. Now he's staying up until 2am on weekends playing Fortnite with his friends online. His grades are still good but I'm worried about the sleep and also just... is t...
Three years ago I was commuting 90 minutes each way and barely saw my kids before bed. My company went remote during covid and honestly I thought it would be chaos. Turns out I'm more productive, I eat lunch with my 7 year old sometimes, and I can actually be there when my kids need me. My boss does...
My grandpa was old school southern through and through. Said yes sir and no sir, dressed properly, respected his elders, took care of his family. I try to live that way but sometimes I feel like I'm the only one. My friends think manners are outdated. My kids roll their eyes when I insist on sitting...
Had to shut down my oldest yesterday for talking back to his mom. Doesn't matter if she was wrong about something, doesn't matter if he thinks he has a point. You don't speak to a woman, especially your mother, with disrespect. Told him to go to his room and we talked about it later when we were bot...
Took my 4 year old to get milk this morning. She asked why we were buying milk when the cow is home. Spent 10 minutes trying to explain we don't have a cow before I just said 'you know what, that's a great point.' The cashier was dying laughing. I don't think I'll ever win a logical argument with he...
Been thinking a lot about what it means to raise my boy right. In a world where everyone's trying to get over on each other, I want him to understand that a man's word is his bond. Started having him make commitments to small things - finish his chores by Saturday, help his sister without being aske...
They asked if it was good and I said I can't put it down. Daughter said 'Dad that makes no sense' and walked away. She's 8. They're learning to despise my humor and honestly I'm proud.
Planning my first competition style brisket. I've done plenty of ribs and pulled pork but brisket intimidates me. Should I go with a meat thermometer or the toothpick test? How long should I let it rest? Want to impress the family before my brother visits next month. Any techniques that actually mak...
Was thinking about my old man today. He wasn't a perfect guy but he taught me to keep my promises, treat people with respect regardless of who they are, and admit when I'm wrong. Now I'm trying to pass that along to my kids. He would be proud of the men we're raising. Miss him some days but his less...
My kids want me to play Fortnite with them and I feel like a total dinosaur. I tried it last week and got destroyed but they thought it was hilarious. Been thinking about getting a decent gaming PC just to have something to do with them on rainy days. Is it worth the investment or will I just waste ...
Before kids I was spontaneous, could pick up and go anywhere. Had money for stupid stuff I didn't need. Could take a girl out without planning childcare weeks in advance. Now? I plan dinner dates like I'm orchestrating a military operation. But man the way my kids look at me when I show up to their ...
Because it wanted to improve its *punchline*. Okay I'll see myself out.