Spent way too much money on a jogger stroller thinking it was stupid but honestly it's the best purchase I've made since becoming a dad. I actually take my kids on runs with me now. It's not the same as my old solo runs but it's something. I get my exercise, they get fresh air, and I'm not missing o...
7-week-old, breastfeeding primarily but taking expressed milk in bottles sometimes. Pediatrician said we could go 3 hours between feeds during the day, but baby seems hungry around 2.5-2.75 hours consistently. Should I just feed on demand or stick to a schedule? Wife says I'm overthinking it but I w...
My wife makes about 30% more than me and while I'm genuinely happy for her, something in my brain keeps making it about MY value. Like logically I know that's dumb, but the anxiety about being the "provider" is still there even though we're both providing. Is this just outdated dad brain stuff or is...
Okay, I was skeptical when my therapist suggested it but I'm a believer now. Having all communication with my ex in one place instead of scattered texts has been a GAME CHANGER. No more "but you said..." arguments because everything is timestamped and documented. Plus the custody calendar sync auto...
Why does poop have to go UP the back sometimes?? Changed my 8-week-old's diaper at 4am and somehow the damage went all the way up to his hairline. HAIRLINE. Had to give him a full bath in the middle of the night, strip the crib, wash the mattress protector. My wife was laughing at me the whole time ...
Family used to mean something. Cousins knew each other, uncles taught nephews skills, grandparents were involved. Now everyone's scattered and on screens. Been trying to organize quarterly family gatherings and getting some pushback from the wife about the drive. Anyone else fighting to keep the fam...
So my 5yo dumped like 3,000 Legos all over the basement. On purpose. As an "experiment" to see what would happen. What happened is me stepping on 47 of them in bare feet and making sounds that probably terrified the neighbors. My wife found me sitting on the couch just... staring. Not even mad anymo...
Started doing this 3 weeks ago. Every Sunday afternoon we prep ingredients for the week together—my 10yo and 12yo chop veggies, measure grains, portion stuff into containers. They're learning kitchen skills, it cuts down my stress during the week, AND they're more likely to eat stuff they helped pre...
My 8yo and I built a bird feeder from reclaimed fence boards a few weeks ago and just kind of hung it up. This turned into him wanting to track which birds come to it, which is sweet, but now he wants to build DIFFERENT feeders to attract specific birds and is actually reading field guides about it?...
My daughter's turning 12 next month and her birthday falls on a Tuesday (my day). Her mom wants to throw a big party on Saturday instead but that's her weekend. We've done the 'split party' thing before and it's awkward - the kids feel like they're celebrating twice but also like they're missing out...
Just dropped $95 on a pair of New Balances for my 10yo because his old ones are literally falling apart. And I KNOW he's gonna outgrow them in like 8 months. This can't be sustainable. Do other parents just buy the cheapest shoes they can find? What's your strategy here because my feet are gonna be ...
Quick question - my son (11) wants to join Discord to chat with his Fortnite squad. I know basically nothing about it. Is this a platform I should be worried about or is it like... group chat? What should I know before I let him use it?
We're in a rut. Every week it's the same rotation: spaghetti, tacos, chicken something, pizza night. The kids eat it but I'm bored out of my mind. Looking for ideas that don't take 45 minutes and that won't get rejected by my picky 8yo. What are you guys actually making that works?
Dude. I am NOT okay. We've been working on this for like 3 months and today he just... did it. Went down the driveway and around the cul-de-sac. My wife was filming and I'm pretty sure I'm in the background losing my mind. He wants to do it again tomorrow. This is the stuff they don't tell you about...
My 7yo's soccer game was last Saturday and instead of sitting on the sideline on my phone like usual, I actually watched the whole thing and cheered loud and embarrassed him lol. But we had such a good car ride home talking about the goals he scored, and it made me realize I've been kind of checked ...