I messed up. My girlfriend moved in with me after like 4 months of dating and now my kids are confused about boundaries and relationships. My 7yo keeps asking why she sleeps in my room and if they're going to get married. I didn't think this through and now my ex is using it as ammunition saying I'm...
We're trying to cut back on subscriptions (have like 8 right now which is ridiculous). My 5yo likes Bluey and my 11yo is into Percy Jackson type stuff. Which one would you keep? We're between Disney+, Netflix, and Apple TV+. Trying to pick just one or maybe two. What's the best value rn?
Okay so this is semi-rant, semi-question. I have a work trip next month (pre-planned). My manager just asked if I could "take one of the team members' kids to school" while they're on their own trip at the same time. Like... no? I'm traveling for work. I have my own kids I'm figuring out coverage f...
Thinking about trying meditation or whatever but I'm skeptical. Does Calm actually help or is it just another thing I'll download, try once, then forget about? Also is it worth the subscription or are there free options that are just as good? TIA
My 4yo has watched the Pool episode like 47 times. Not exaggerating. She asks for it by name every single morning. Don't get me wrong, it's a quality show and keeps her entertained while I make coffee, but I'm losing my mind hearing that same music on repeat. Is this normal or do I have a problem on...
Anyone else done this? We had iPhones for the family and Apple's parental controls are honestly pretty basic. Switched the kids' phones to Pixel 6a and using Google Family Link instead. It's SO much better - I can see app usage broken down, set specific time limits per app instead of just total scre...
I'm only 3 days back at work after 6 weeks home with the baby and I feel like I'm failing at both jobs now. I'm distracted in meetings thinking about whether my wife is managing okay with our 4-month-old. But also I'm not giving my work the attention it needs. My boss asked me to lead a project and ...
Here's what worked: I stopped calling them vegetables and started calling them "power-ups." My 5yo now asks for carrot power-ups and broccoli power-ups. My 7yo rolled his eyes at first but he's eating them too. Peas are apparently "energy balls." It's dumb but it works and I'm not questioning it. An...
Went to my first meeting Tuesday night. 8 of us sitting around talking about parenting stress, anxiety, feeling isolated—and nobody tried to fix anything or tell me to "just relax." Just listened. One guy's dealing with custody stuff, another's struggling with anger management like me, one's on anti...
Math'd it out this morning and holy shit. I know sleep deprivation with a newborn is normal but actually seeing the number made it real. No wonder I yelled at my wife yesterday about the dishwasher. No wonder I nearly fell asleep driving. How much longer does this actually last?
Taking my 3yo on our first real hike this Saturday at Blue Ridge Parkway and honestly I'm second-guessing everything. She's done short walks but nothing longer than 30 mins. Should I do a 2-mile trail or is that ambitious? Also debating whether to get one of those hiking backpacks or if a regular st...
So I finally got around to that treehouse project and honestly thought it'd be a disaster. Spent last weekend with my son building it in the oak tree in our backyard - used some old pallets, 2x4s, and a ton of YouTube tutorials. Kid was so focused, kept asking why we needed the level and if the nail...
He wanted more juice and just said "more juice please?" without me reminding him. I know this is like the bare minimum but I'm riding this high all day.
My 4yo will watch it on repeat and honestly I don't even mind it. There's actual good humor in there for adults and the parenting feels real, not preachy. Plus Bluey's dad is kind of a legend. Just venting that we've probably watched the backyard games episode 47 times but at least it's wholesome co...
My daughter will be fine. She's social, excited, ready to go. But I keep thinking about her sitting alone at lunch or something going wrong and me not being there to fix it. I know this is irrational. I know she needs to do this. Why is this harder for me than it is for her? She went to bed at her n...