Taking my son out early to hit the lake before it gets too hot. Been a couple months since we've been out and I'm really looking forward to some quiet time with him. Plus I just picked up new tackle box and got some new lures I want to try. Hoping to catch something decent so I have something to bra...
Spent the last few weekends getting everything sorted and labeled. Got shelving up, pegboard for the tools, and even made a little charging station for the power drill batteries. Feels weird having a clean garage. Already ruined it by starting a new project but at least I know where everything is no...
Just upgraded from a old TV to a 55 inch and holy crap the difference is insane. Games look so crisp now. My buddies were over last night and we played for like 6 hours straight. My wife was not happy with me but it was worth it. If anyone is looking for a TV, don't cheap out. Your eyes will thank y...
Just noticed a pattern. My kids get really moody and difficult the night before they go to their mom's house. Not sure if they're anxious about the transition or what. Started asking them gently about it but they don't really explain. Mom says they're fine when they get there. Any dads experienced s...
My ex and I separated about 8 months ago. I've been trying to talk to her about school decisions, doctor appointments, that kind of thing, but she refuses to have any real conversations. Everything has to be texted and she takes forever to respond. Then when I try to call about something urgent rega...
Just finished episode 3 last night and holy crap it actually slaps. I was skeptical about another Office show but this is legit good. No spoilers but the side character storylines are better than the main plot this season. Anyone else watching or is it just me?
Took 6 weeks off after our third kid was born and it was amazing. Got to be there for everything. But now I'm back in the office and I'm watching my wife juggle everything alone while I'm stuck in meetings. The guilt is real. She told me not to feel bad but I can't help it. Anyone else deal with thi...
Realized I was teaching my kids about forgiveness and grace while never apologizing to them when I messed up. Got angry at my son last week for something that wasn't his fault and he avoided me the rest of the day. Had to go to him, own my mistake, and ask his forgiveness. The look on his face chang...
My job is incredibly stressful lately. Layoffs happening, unrealistic deadlines, toxic manager. I come home frustrated and irritable and take it out on my wife and kids for stupid things. She called me out on it last night and I know she's right. I need to figure out how to leave work at work but I ...
Got the new gaming chair, organized all my controllers, hung up some posters, got a mini fridge going. It's not much but it's mine. The kids know not to bother me in here after 7pm and my wife thinks it's ridiculous but whatever keeps me sane right?
Spent the last month rewrapping the guides and refinishing the handle on my old baitcaster. Took some patience but it looks brand new. Can't wait to take it out to the lake next weekend. Anyone else obsessed with maintaining their gear or is it just me?
I told him it's because I'm a dad. He said that's not a reason, that's an excuse. I said you're right, but I'm still gonna keep doing it. He groaned so loud the neighbors asked if he was okay.
Took a remote job 2 years ago to save on daycare and be more present. Sounds great right? Wrong. My identity was wrapped up in being the guy who went to the office, got dressed up, had a commute that was MY time. Now I work from my kitchen, my kids interrupt meetings, my boundaries are completely go...
Got mad at my son for being impatient and he asked me why I was mad when I always say Jesus wants us to be patient. Completely got me. He was right. I apologized and we talked about how even dads mess up and need God's grace too. These little people are teaching me more than I'm teaching them someti...
Spent 3 hours yesterday gathering all the stuff, checking if the tent still has all the poles, finding the sleeping bags that aren't moldy. Then I gotta pack food, make sure the cooler works, check for gas in the stove. We haven't even left yet and I'm exhausted. But somehow once we get out there it...