Been using the Headspace dad meditation pack for like 3 weeks now. Not gonna say it's a miracle worker but the 5-min morning sessions legit help me not be a rage monster before breakfast. Some are cheesy but the ones about "being present vs being perfect" hit different when you're a parent. Worth th...
ngl this is a weird take but changing my son's diapers (he's 3 months) is like the one thing I can do that's purely competence-based right now. I'm not leaking milk, I'm not a walking pacifier, I'm just... doing a task and doing it well? My wife thought I was insane when I told her this lol but like...
Had a weird moment last night where I suggested we try a different diaper brand because the current ones give my son (2 months) a rash but my wife took it as criticism of her choices? That wasn't the intent at all - I was just problem-solving because he's uncomfortable. Now I'm wondering if I'm ov...
This might sound weird but I feel this constant pressure that MY job is the "primary" one even though my wife makes nearly as much as I do. We're both working full-time, but somehow it's my career path everyone asks about, my job that seems more important when schedules conflict, and I feel like I n...
Got about 80% of the composite deck done this weekend while the kids played in the backyard. Only had to run inside twice to make sure nothing was on fire. The grill stayed on low heat the whole time and honestly it worked out perfectly—grilled some burgers for lunch while I was working. My back is ...
My oldest was really into basketball and video games but lately he just seems... done? With everything? Comes home from school, goes to his room. I don't want to push too hard but I'm worried. Is this normal teen stuff or should I be concerned? How do I approach this without making him shut down mor...
I get it now. Like actually GET it. My dad always seemed tired but never complained. Now I'm tired and complaining constantly and my kid is only one. That man had four of us. I legit owe my parents an apology and a therapy fund. Parents are insane.
Been working on this for like 6 months. Every morning it was a battle. Today he just... did it. Bunny ears, loops, the whole thing. I'm sitting here drinking cold coffee trying not to cry lol. Small thing but man it feels huge.
**UPDATE:** Switched to the Burt's Bees organic cotton wraps and our 3-month-old finally sleeps for more than 45 minutes. We tried: - Love to Dream (waste of money) - Swaddleme velcro (he busted out in 10 mins) - Regular blankets (lol) - Zipadee Zip (okay but expensive) - These Burt's ones (finally ...
Been on it for 3 weeks. First two weeks felt weird and nauseous but my doctor said stick with it. This past week I've slept through the night 4 times—FOUR TIMES—without waking up at 3am spiraling about random things. My anxiety is still there but it's like the volume turned down? Don't know if that'...
My 6-year-old was ready to ditch the training wheels so we went to the park yesterday. I was running alongside the bike like some kind of Olympic sprinter, sweating through my shirt, absolutely convinced she was about to eat pavement. She made it maybe 30 feet before wobbling into the grass but hone...
My oldest is 11. He's starting to notice stuff - asking questions about why people are mean to each other, asking about my job and money stuff, getting curious about body changes. I want to be honest and age-appropriate but idk where the line is. What conversations are you having with your 11yo or ...
Got one for my newborn after my wife's aunt had an issue with her 2mo and honestly it gives us peace of mind. Real-time notifications, heart rate, oxygen levels. Yeah it costs like $300 but we sleep better. Some people think it's overkill but for first-time parents? We love it. We're in Chicago and ...
So I switched from Google Calendar to Homebase (the app, not the furniture store lol) for coordinating with my ex and it's actually been solid. Both our phones sync the calendar in real time so there's no 'wait did I tell you about the dentist appointment' situations. It cost like $5/month but hones...
This one stings a little ngl. We've done board game nights since he was like 7 and he always loved it. Last Friday I suggested it and he literally rolled his eyes and said 'that's so cringe' and went upstairs. His sister (10) still wants to play but it's not the same without him there. Idk, maybe th...