Rick J.

Commented on Found out my 8yo told mom he's 'scared' of my new girlfriend

Before jumping to conclusions, I'd invite Sarah to do something low-pressure with him, like helping in the garage with a project. Sometimes kids just ...

Commented on Respect for teachers but my kids need to learn discipline too

You're not old fashioned, you're just being a parent. Clear boundaries actually make kids feel more secure, not less. The key is making sure the conse...

Commented on Depression hit different after kids

Yeah, the mental health piece hits different when you're responsible for tiny humans. You can't just check out the same way you used to, so you have t...

Commented on Became a dad and had to completely rebuild my entire life

Sounds like you didn't just rebuild your life, you built something real. That takes guts and I respect the hell out of that.

Commented on First time changing a blowout diaper and I'm traumatized

I've seen some things with three kids and I can confirm you are absolutely not ready for what nature can do. But you got through it, that's the win he...

Commented on Started woodworking in the garage and it's changed my life

That's a really cool way to honor your dad while picking up something for yourself. I bet he'd be glad those tools are getting used.

Commented on New Schedule Issues with Ex

45 minutes each way is brutal. I've been in similar situations with the custody stuff and honestly communication early helps way more than getting stu...

Commented on Bass fishing tips for early morning?

That 5am quiet time sounds amazing. I'm jealous - that's the kind of peace I used to get before the kids were born. Keep at it!

Commented on My 5yo just rode his bike without training wheels

Three months of work paying off right there. Even with the crash at the end that's a memory he'll remember forever.

Commented on Just got approved for 12 weeks paternity leave and I'm terrified

Being home for three months sounds scary until you realize how much you actually get to be present. Don't overthink it, just enjoy your kid.