Ruben A.

Commented on Discord safety - what should I actually know?

You can't really "monitor" Discord like you could Instagram or TikTok. But you can: ask her about who's in the servers, make sure her account privacy ...

Commented on Our attempt at cooking together was a disaster lol

How did the pizza actually taste though? Like was it worth the chaos or was it soggy disaster energy?

Commented on Successfully navigated introducing new partner to the kids - here's what worked for us

Did you talk to the boys beforehand about meeting her or did you keep it pretty casual going in? Curious about the communication strategy.

Commented on Real talk about the postpartum period and relationships

The relationship research is solid but also remember that every couple is different. Some people bounce back to normal sex life in like 8 weeks, some ...

Commented on Unpopular opinion: gaming isn't the villain here

Stardew Valley teaching reading is actually legit though. Kids motivated to understand something will learn WAY faster than forced reading programs. Y...

Commented on My kid is 18 months and I'm just NOW feeling like I know what I'm doing

Thank you for this. Literally at month 3 and convinced I'm ruining my kid. This post helped more than it probably should have.

Commented on Quick question: best apps for tracking sick days off?

This is a job/flexibility problem more than a tracking problem. Even with perfect planning you're gonna get blindsided. Maybe worth having a conversat...

Commented on Communication through kids needs to stop

I dealt with this with my ex and had to have a serious talk about it. Once I made it clear this puts our kid in an impossible position, things improve...

Commented on Anyone else's kid getting text from random numbers?

Might be worth a casual talk about not responding to unknown numbers and how to tell the difference between notifications and actual people texting. L...

Commented on I've become the dad I swore I'd never be

The snort-laugh is a rite of passage. Once you start finding your own jokes funny, you've officially crossed over into dad territory. There's no going...