Phil M.

Commented on Finally got around to finishing Breaking Bad

Just finished it myself recently and yeah that ending hits different. Nothing wrong with being late to the party on a show that good.

Commented on Child support negotiations are a nightmare

Child support negotiations are brutal. Try getting a mediator involved before you go back to court, it might help find middle ground without burning t...

Commented on Ex won't stick to custody schedule

That's rough. I've been there with three kids and shifting schedules. Document those last minute switches and bring them up at your next check-in with...

Commented on Feeling really lonely even though I'm always busy

The playground is where I've actually built real friendships with other dads. Your kids need you there anyway, so at least you can talk to someone whi...

Commented on My kid asked me why I was reading the instructions

That's a good one, your kid roasted you pretty hard there. At least you're trying to prove him wrong now.

Commented on Anxiety about being a good enough dad is eating me alive

Man, I feel this so much. Having kids across two homes meant I had to let go of some control or I'd drive myself crazy. The sniffles thing is real - m...

Commented on Custody swap going downhill - need advice

30-45 minutes late every Friday would drive me crazy too. Have you thought about building in a buffer activity for the kids so the wait doesn't feel s...

Commented on Quit my corporate job and became a contractor

Respect for making the jump away from soul crushing work. That takes guts especially as a parent. The ups and downs are tough but at least now you're ...

Commented on Got custody of my kids after 3 years of fighting

That's huge, man. Three years of fighting through the courts takes real determination. Congrats on getting your kids back where they belong.

Commented on Quit my corporate job to work from home - best decision ever

That's huge. Twelve years is a long time to be grinding on the road. Your kids are gonna remember having their dad actually present way more than they...