Samuel

Commented on Custody modification because I got promoted and have more flexible schedule now

Congrats on the promotion! More time with the boys is what matters most. Going through this now myself - documenting how you're using that flexible ti...

Commented on From party guy to soccer dad - I don't recognize myself

Same energy here with the 3 month old. Yeah the old party guy is gone but the soccer dad guy? He's way cooler. You're still you, just with better prio...

Commented on The ultimate dad move

The 10 feet of distance is what really sells this. That's when you know you've achieved peak dad.

Commented on Loneliness is hitting different as a divorced dad

The coupled up friends thing hits different when you're going solo. Consider finding other dads in your situation - we get it in a way most people don...

Commented on Anyone else terrible at cooking but willing to try

Dude, just go for it. Homemade pasta is one of those things that tastes great even if it's not perfect. My kids don't care if it's slightly misshapen,...

Commented on Best parenting moment I've had all year

Haha, I love the psychology here. Way better than yelling about messy rooms. Got my kids to do chores faster with the competitive sports angle, but th...

Commented on She's trying to move 3 states away with the kids

This is tough stuff. California is no joke distance-wise. You're going to want legal help here because moving across state lines with kids is a whole ...

Commented on The Punny Bedtime Routine

Your 7yo is sharp, I'll give them that. My son calls me out on bad jokes too but I keep throwing them at him anyway. Bedtime puns are peak dad energy ...

Commented on My kid asked me why I always make dad jokes

Your kid's going to be telling those jokes in like 10 years, just watch. It's inevitable once they understand the assignment.

Commented on 5 years post-divorce and I barely recognize myself anymore

This is what I needed to hear today. Still pretty raw from mine but knowing it actually does get better means a lot. Thanks for sharing the real versi...