Tom R.

Commented on Backyard obstacle course tournament

The losing gracefully thing is gold. So many kids his age spiral when they don't win. Does he just accept it or is there a moment where you have to ta...

Commented on Successfully navigated introducing new partner to the kids - here's what worked for us

This is really thoughtful. The 'not pushing anything' and letting it happen gradually is the key thing most people miss. They want it to be Like a Fam...

Commented on Quick question: Guilt about staying longer at office to avoid rush hour?

Real talk: is the 'decompression time' actually helping you be better with your kids, or are you just avoiding the chaos? Because those are two differ...

Commented on Real talk: do you actually enjoy watching your kids' sports?

I bring a book and honestly just read. Nobody expects me to watch intently for the entire 45 mins. I cheer when something happens, but mostly I'm just...

Commented on Wife surprised me with a dad appreciation breakfast

The 'hits different' part is so real lmao. It's not about the pancakes being fancy, it's about everyone conspiring together to make you feel seen. Sou...

Commented on Daycare costs are INSANE in Boston

$2,400/month is CRIMINAL. That's like $28,800 a year and you're paying it with after-tax money so really it's like $40k. Have you looked into subsidie...

Commented on Took the kids camping and we didn't kill each other

Nice work man. Getting a 7 and 4 year old to actually have fun camping is no small feat. Did they sleep okay or were they too excited?

Commented on Won free baseball tickets - taking my 9yo to his first major league game

This is the kind of memory that sticks with kids forever. Not the fancy gift, but the EXPERIENCE and your enthusiasm about HIS excitement. He's gonna ...

Commented on Started therapy yesterday

Props for being self-aware enough to notice the yelling pattern and do something about it. That's real growth already.

Commented on My 11yo doesn't want to come to my house anymore and I'm not handling it well

Screen time limits and getting off the couch aren't "too strict" they're basic parenting. Your ex using his words against you in this way is frustrati...